If You Don't Change, Your Life Never Will

A lot of people focus on the outer appearance of themselves hoping that people will never see the changes that need to be made on the inside. If you want things to happen in your life, that have never happened, it's time to realise you need to change your mind, as well as your body and soul. If you don't change your life never will.

What this means is if you keep the same drama in your life, you will not grow. You will go through the same circle of events over and over again. You will feel like your life is on repeat. When one situation is overcome another one will pop up. Keeping you in the same drama filled life you've been trying to get out of.

If you keep telling yourself you want a new job, but never go after it. How can you grow and advance inside when you are not allowing yourself to learn more. When you clearly know it is time to move on, but don't because of security or being scared you will never get the life you want.

Keeping people in your life that don't want good for you. This is a sure way to block your blessings. It is hard to remove people you love and care about, but if they are only bringing you stress, misery, confrontation, then it is time to completely let them go. You deserve to live your best life.

You have to be truthful with yourself. You have to figure out what are the core issues in your life and work on them. Sometimes it's something within that you have been harbouring. Working on those issues allows you to be the best you. It may require counselling, eliminating people, or just taking a 30 day quiet time (time away from people to see how you feel).

If you don't change, your life never will. You have to be ready for changes inside the mind and body. You have to understand this will be hard. You have to understand people will be upset. BUT.... you also have to understand that you have to do what is best for you. Living your life to the fullest is your duty. You have to be happy and you are the only person that has to live with you everyday. The decisions you make, the places you go, the people you spend time with are all your choices. If live has been a never ending ferrous wheel, going round and round with the same issues, then you need to figure out how to get off so you can start a real journey.

Take chances, adapt to change, learn something, let go of negative, appreciate happiness and enjoy life. You will not regret being the best person you can be. The only way to do that is by change. Grow, live, and change the world. Keep growing and inspiring.

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