Who Will Be In Your Circle This Year

There comes a time in our adult lives that we have to sit down and evaluate what other people's purposes are in our lives. It isn't done to demean or degrade anyone you currently have in your circle, but to evaluate your growth potential and happiness. Who will be in your circle this year?

This is an armed question. It can seem daunting and scary, but if you really want to be the person you REALLY WANT TO BE, then you have to make changes every year accordingly. This goes for career, personal happiness, financial success, and every other aspect of your life. If you are carrying people and feel that you can't grow with them around then it may be time to limit your carrying and focus on your goals. If you are around people who inspire you and drive you to do more then you may be with the people you should be with.

Who will be in your circle this year should include motivating, driven, focused, helpful, inspiring and loyal people. If you feel for one moment that the people you currently spend majority of your time with don't posses these qualities, maybe you should reconsider who you spend a lot of time with.

This doesn't mean you have to cut them out completely. The goal of a "circle" is to be around people like minded and inspire you. There are time you will be with those that are just fun to be around. There is nothing wrong with that. However, if you spend more time helping others get their lives together than you do actually living or focusing on what you need to then maybe you have to re-evaluate how much time you spend with these people.

For example, if you have three friends and two of those friends have similar interest and you tend to make things happen without confrontation or judgement and if you need help they are there, you may have the right circle around you. The third person that disagrees with everything you do because they can't see that vision, or agrees as long as you carry them in the project, this person may be a problem in the future.

When deciding who is in your circle you have to base it on where you see yourself going. Some people are perfectly content with where they are and the people they hang around. That is amazing. They have no plans on growing or doing anything different. However, many people want to improve bit by bit every year and to do that sometimes you need new inspiration. That could mean a trip, change in scenery, and most importantly new influences (people).

To sum it all up you need people in your circle that will support your choices and help you when you make bad ones. You want those who will allow you to be you, without judgement, but don't let you steer too far off path. You want genuine people around you. You want real love and respect. You will never be able to succeed with negative, unsupportive and judgmental people in your circle.

Take some time to evaluate those you have in your immediate circle and if they are who you need great. Have a wonderful year making your dreams come true with the amazing people you call friends or family. If for some reason you evaluate your circle and you feel someone constantly drags you down, you put more effort into their lives than they do yours, or you just feel it's time to separate, figure out a way to revamp your circle.

One way to revamp your circle is to write down all the people you deal with on a regular. Make a great column and a needs improvement column. List their attributes to your life and if you have more needs improvement than great think about having a conversation with those people. If nothing changes start spending less time with them and more time with the great people. You will see your choices, happiness and career aspirations in a different light.

Overall, this is your life. You should be completely happy with those that are apart of your life. No one is perfect, including ourselves, but when we surround ourselves with like-minded people we tend to be more successful, happy and humble. Take some time early this year to build your immediate circle of family and friends and determine if you are already perfectly set or you need to make some changes. So happy to share this with you loving folks. Keep loving & living.